Whatever You Do, Don’t Think About the Number 7
In some alternate version of your life, a film crew and TV show host approach you on the street and offer you a chance to win one million dollars if you can successfully complete a brief and relatively...
View ArticleI am You
Morning Meditation I’m not sure why but this morning as I ambled through suburbia on my daily meditative stroll, it dawned on me how similar we all are. Outwardly different, inwardly not-so-different....
View ArticleHow do Others See You (and does it matter)?
The following is an extract from my new book that’s out Wednesday (stay tuned). If you’ve been reading my stuff for a while, some of the content might be familiar… A Seven Out of Ten Way back in the...
View ArticleChange Your Relationship with Change
What? What kind of weird-arse title is that? What does it even mean? Well, in a not-very-technical nutshell, it means that some of us are crap at dealing with change and if we’re serious about creating...
View ArticleHating on Men
Let me say up front that I’m all for taking the piss out of blokes. We often deserve it. To a point. Let me also say that the graphic below doesn’t bother or offend me but at the same time, I don’t...
View ArticleYou Can’t Handle the Truth!
From a ‘creating positive change and stepping into reality’ perspective, it’s fair to say that sometimes the thing we would-be changers want to hear is not necessarily the thing we need to hear. Just...
View ArticleTell Yourself a New Story
Hi. Today, something that will be familiar to some of you (but well worth revisiting). It’s been tweaked and dusted off… Too Scared to Try Many people won’t even try because they’re scared of failure....
View ArticleShit That Won’t Happen
Let’s be honest, most of us have wasted ridiculous amounts of time and energy worrying unnecessarily about shit that will never happen. And I mean shit. Over and over again, we’ve worked ourselves into...
View ArticleTen Relationship Improvers (and some news for Perth People)
Some, all or none of these suggestions might be relevant for you. See what fits… 1. Stop expecting people to think like you. 2. Stop having pointless conversations. 3. Stop being the people pleaser. 4....
View ArticleThe Emotional Baggage Carousel
I’m back! If you’ve ever been to an airport then you know exactly what a baggage carousel looks like and what it does. It constantly spews out baggage from somewhere deep within the bowels of the...
View ArticleMind Your Mind
Hi Everyone, I hope this finds you well. As often seems to be the case lately, my non-blogospheric commitments (just made that term up) are keeping me somewhat busy, so rather than trying to write...
View ArticleThe Happiness Delusion
Happiness: it’s the universal goal isn’t it? After all, who doesn’t want some of that action? It’s certainly a lot more enjoyable than say, misery. As emotions go, misery is definitely closer to the...
View ArticleThe Need to be Right
For some people, this exploration might prove to be a little deep. Possibly weird. For others, it could be timely, relevant and valuable. If you’re uncomfortable with anything that’s a little...
View ArticleA Chat with Brig and Lehmo (radio interview)
Hi Guys. If you’re tired of reading my stuff, today you can hear my stuff. I recently had the pleasure of chatting with Brig and Lehmo on Gold 104.3 (here in Melbourne) and we had some fun. Gotta say,...
View ArticleI’m a F**kwit (sometimes)
Some change-your-life snake charmers would have you believe that you’re never anything less than an amazing, beautiful, gifted, all-powerful genius just waiting to blossom into the fullness of your...
View ArticleMy Ego
A Sign? Today I received an electronic message from a very attractive woman from an exotic far-away land who told me that she would like to get to know me. And who could blame her? Not an altogether...
View ArticleCrossed Wires
What was that bit after “listen carefully”? (Maxwell Smart) Has it occurred to you that some people in your world might not be picking up what you’re putting down? Not getting what you’re giving? While...
View ArticleThe Irony of the Brag
I’m Awesome at Humility Bragging is an interesting practice. I can’t be sure but I suspect that men are better at it than women. Although that might just be a man bragging. But then again, perhaps the...
View ArticleBelief
Somewhere there’s a happy wife who believes that her husband is loyal and faithful. He’s not. He’s a very good actor who sleeps around. He’s careful and calculating so when he says “I’m working late...
View ArticleThe Psychology of Age
When we refer to a person’s age we are generally talking about how many years they have been alive. On some level, this version of age is little more than a meaningless numerical tally. Until we make...
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